I Don't Have Your Eyes

As my mother recently stated to me, this journey we are on is also awakening others. I never intended to do that, but my life's desire is that whatever happens in my life it can work for the good. And since the scripture says "all things work together for good..." I really shouldn't be surprised. But, I still am.

Book from Kate the Great!

Above is a sweet book given to me by my friend/co-worker.  The book is by Carrie A Kitze and illustrated by Rob Williams. The main thought of the book is that I (from a child's perspective) don't have your physical characteristics but I have your character. It will be so fun to read it to Baby O when he or she comes. I'm sure it will be a favorite!

I also had a sweet surprise in the mail the other day. I got it the day after our second class.  "You're adopting!," proclaimed the front. The supporting card was from my dear, sweet parents. My mom went on a hunt and found a perfect card to share her excitement and joy.

Card from Mom & Dad

Speaking of the second class, here goes. I wasn't feeling well (I have been sick with a cold for over a week now) and so I can't say that I retained everything. First, we were to share our stories of talking to someone about the classes. Being a summer school teacher mentor, I talked to the two summer school classes I am observing. When I asked the students if they knew of someone who was ever in foster care or who had been adopted to raise their hand I found close to half of the students had been exposed! I then asked them to share if they so desired. One sullen student bravely raised his hand and proceeded to give us his story of being adopted at 9, and his parents giving him an ugly English name (changing it from a beautiful Italian name).  I do have to say when comparing the 2 names I'd want the Italian one too! Anyway, it was so neat of him to share his story and I hope it's helped him to make a connection at school. Plus, I had a cool story to share for class! After sharing we went into an alliance model of the connection between the different entities that surround the child who has been taken by CPS. Then we were given child scenarios (background & needs) and how we would meet the child's needs when he/she came into our home. This is mainly for foster children and perhaps adoptive parents of older children, but it was good to see where these kids are coming from.  We went through probably about 15 of these scenarios and were pretty tired at the end. Thankfully they let us out about 5 minutes early.

Our assignment for next week is to discover strengths and needs we have as a family. Hmm...this should be interesting! We also have quite a bit of reading to do.